Jodie Harper

WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT BEING YOUR AGE?
The acquired wisdom. Having peace knowing that everything that I worried about in my youth has been replaced with satisfaction.

DO YOU LIKE BEING 40+?
Yes. I love the journey of life. Looking back on where I’ve been and what I’ve done. Dreaming about my future but enjoying the now is the best part!

WHEN IN YOUR LIFE, SO FAR, HAVE YOU FELT MOST CONFIDENT, AND WHY?
Now, there is peace knowing I’ve made it through.

WHAT BRINGS YOU THE MOST JOY AT THIS AGE?
I have a solid marriage to a good man. I have some excellent friendships with people from all walks of life. The time spent with my five grandchildren.

WHAT IS YOUR SUPERPOWER?
Communication.

WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER YOUR GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT?
My daughters Ellie & Casey. They are kind, intelligent, and beautiful.

WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST EXTRAVAGANCE?
I’m a Taurus, and I like nice things. Haha.

WHAT IS YOUR MOST TREASURED POSSESSION?
A ruby that my grandfather bought in the early 1900’s. Several hands have worn it. When I look at it, it reminds me of the hardworking people who have worn it: my grandfather, my dad, and then my mother.

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE THING YOU HAVE CHECKED OFF YOUR BUCKET LIST?
A 2-week trip to the Grand Tetons & Yellowstone. I always wanted to go to the Symphony in the Flint Hills, and I have tickets to go this summer!

WHAT IS YOUR IDEA OF PERFECT HAPPINESS?
Harmony with family and interpersonal relationships.

WHAT IS A TRAIT YOU ARE MOST PROUD OF?
Responsibility.

WHAT HARDSHIPS HAVE YOU ENDURED THAT YOU FEEL HAVE MADE YOU STRONGER?
The death of a husband and the death of my mother.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE YOUR YOUNGER SELF?
Don’t doubt yourself too much. Kill the urge to be chosen; choose yourself!

DO YOU HAVE ANY WORDS OF WISDOM FOR YOUNGER WOMEN?
Know your worth.

WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO OR FAVORITE QUOTE?
Live and let live.

WHAT DO YOU MOST VALUE IN YOUR FRIENDS?
I value good hearts in my friends and the ability to always pick up where we lift off.

HOW DID YOU CHANGE OVER THE YEARS?
I’ve become kinder and more able to give grace. I understand everyone is fighting some sort of battle.

IF YOU COULD CHANGE ONE THING ABOUT YOURSELF, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
I need to work on creating better boundaries. I bought the book and need to read it! Lol.

WHAT DO YOU HOPE FOR THE FUTURE GENERATIONS?
Peace & happiness of course.